you can make your life change any day you want by working at it:a few hints for you to follow.

1)  Get Over Your Past: Everyone has a past,some people just speak on it more than others do,for you to move on with life you need to forget your past.

2) Understand What Success Is: When people say things about you (especially good things) it makes you popular but when you feel good about yourself and achievements then you are a success.Your highest purpose in life will give you the greatest joy but it won’t come easily, u might need to make sacrifices.

3) Do Not Look Unto People To Give You Happiness: When you prove your own work…you shall rejoice within yourself alone and not in another (Galatians 6:4).  When you become less demanding you make yourself more attractiveHot smile,so do not wait on people to make you happy.