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People are unreasonable, illogical and self-centered.
Love them anyway.
If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives.
Do good anyway.
If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies.
Succeed anyway.
The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow.
Do good anyway.
Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable.
Be honest and frank anyway.
The biggest person with the biggest ideas can be
shot down by the smallest person with the smallest mind.
Think big anyway.
What you spend years building may
be destroyed overnight.
Build anyway.
People really need help but may attack if you help them.
Help people anyway.
Give the world the best you have
and you might get kicked in the teeth.
Give the world the best you’ve got anyway.
– Anonymous


      Failure is like a bitter capsule, it can be catastrophic, yet the toxins of failure can help develop resistance against future failures. To fail is not pleasant but it is also an opportunity to do better,

      People often fail to realize that failure is an EVENT, an EVENT comes and goes, what you now do with the EVENT determines whether failure is a PASSER-BY, or FINALATY. Failure can either be an intimidator or a motivator it’s all about your attitude, your attitude will determine whether you will rise up or not. Failure can come in different ways.

Failure in relationships

Failure in ministry

Failure in getting a job

Failure in your career

Failure in examinations   etc..

Your attitude to your situation, people around you, yourself and God will go a long way to determine your recovery.

   Maybe you have been disappointed in the area of marriage and you feel like your whole world is crumbling, whatever may be the person’s excuse for disappointing you it is never the end of the road, its only a BEND and BENDS naturally slow your speed down, after the bend you can always pick up. YOU will pick up.

   In whatever area you experienced failure always know that :-

Failure is not new

Most successful people have failed before but they did not resign to fate

Even though you fail again you should keep on trying, if not you will fail forever

Evaluate and know what causes your failure so that you do not fall into it again.

    Have a positive attitude and believe in yourself that you can make it and you will make it.

Patience is the ability to tolerate delay, endure provacation, annoyance, misfortune, or pain with calm and strenght. Being patient is no easy task but its a virtue that can be cultivated and nutured over time. Here are some few tips i use to help keep my patience in-check, hope its helps you too. 1- Why am i such in a hurry, try to spread out your time and tasks. 2- What makes me lose my patience, be aware of it to reduce the frequency of impatience. 3- Learn from your impatience, if its warranted or helpful and figure out how to change than feeling stressed about it. 4- Write it down, what your feelings of impatience are associated with, take notes each time the feelings occur. 5- Learn to relax when you feel impatient take a few deep breaths and clear your mind. 6- Let go if you cant do anything about what triggered your impatience, its not easy but its possible. 7- Remember what matters. 8- Expect the unexpected be realistic. 9- see the big picture and remind yourself that most good things take time. 10- Have a positive outlook to life.

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